Lorraine Bacon

I am an experience person centered counsellor, specialized in Psychosexual & Relationship Therapy. The basic principle of my approach is to create an opportunity to build a trusting ‘Therapeutic Relationship’ with a growing willingness to explore issues/emotions which may be a result of past or present experiences. My non-judgmental, confidential and honest ‘safe space’ i offer brings about an opportunity to unravel difficulties/challenges which may well be affecting your daily life, relationships, work, general health, intimacy (sexual/non sexual) and sexual experiences. I will facilitate the process in a tentative guiding way, whether an individual, same or different sex couple.

Relationship problems impact the sex life and intimacy within a relationship, bringing about a constant circle of ‘not getting anywhere, which for sure will bring feelings of frustration, failure and disappointment consequently leaving the relationship feeling ‘stuck’. I use skills from an integrative model to create a unique structure for the individual or couple, with a core foundation of congruence, non judgment and empathy with respect of the human essence to have the ability to heal its self.

Through exploration of feelings and thoughts comes awareness and clarity, the understanding of personal needs and realistic choices, gaining this understanding helps in making positive life choices. I will educate why we chose the partners we do, introduce skills and tools to embrace ‘non abusive’ conflict, to welcome it as an opportunity to aid a deeper connection with your partner.

I specialize in working with either individuals or couples who are experiencing relationship problems, this being communication breakdown, disconnection, betrayal, Infidelity, Libido loss, Sexual difficulties, Sexual addiction, menopause, addiction or a sexual dysfunction such as:

> Loss of desire/interest
> Erectile dysfunction
> Vaginismus (Involuntary spasm of the circumvaginal muscles)
> Dyspareunia (female) (Pain with sexual intercourse/penetration)
> Premature ejaculation
> Orgasmic Disorder

Also issues of:
> Sexual Trauma
> Sexual Identity Issues
> Ejaculation problems
> Sexual Phobia
> Fetish and Paraphilia
> Drug/Alcohol addiction

I am an accredited COSRT (College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists) and a BACP (British association for Counselling & Psychotherapy) full member and I abide by each of their code of ethics of best practice with regards to commitment to ongoing training, supervision and professional development.

Being awarded the accreditation with COSRT means I am a specialist in psychosexual and relationship therapy, having met strict criteria in respect of training, experience, knowledge, ethical standards, clinical skills and commitment to continuous professional development; this is audited annually.